Ex-etiquette: Your new boyfriend is someone’s husband

Q: My new boyfriend apparently split with his wife a week ago, but he has dinner at the table twice a week and she was texting him tattoos he may like. His Facebook page says he’s married. I feel like I am not being told the truth in many ways. What’s good ex-etiquette?


Living with Children: Teacher needs advice to get parental cooperation

An early childhood educator of thirty-eight years left a message asking if I had advice for encouraging cooperation from parents. She reports what every veteran teacher (defined as having twenty years or more classroom experience) I have spoken with over the past forty years reports: to wit, that it is the rare parent who does not become defensive, even accusatory, when a teacher reports misbehavior.


Ask Mr. Dad: Nothing to fear but fear

Dear Mr. Dad: My 15-month-old baby is suddenly afraid of everything – including a lot of things he wasn't afraid of just a few weeks ago. He's scared of the bathtub, getting his hair cut, the vacuum cleaner, the dark, and even our dog (the same dog that he actually rode on recently. What's going on and what can we do to help our son?


App review: BrainPOP Featured Movie: Awesome Educational Tool for Kids Going Back to School

Parents need to know that the content in BrainPOP Featured Movie is produced by a well-respected educational organization. The content changes daily (though everything is archived, so kids don't feel pressured to use the app every day). Each day, there is a new animated documentary, and it could be on just about any topic you can think of. Film topics have included the planet Mars, dogs, asthma, blogs, and Mexican artist Frida Kahlo. These films and the information within are geared toward older elementary school kids. While there shouldn't be anything offensive or scary for younger kids, the movies – and the quizzes that follow them – may be over the heads of kids younger than 8.


How can I get my kids in the mood for school after a summer of TV and video games?

Most families take a more relaxed approach to screen time during the summer. But once the school year starts, homework, extracurriculars, and other activities require a tighter schedule. Develop a game plan – with your kids' input – before school starts, and begin implementing it when you still have some flexibility in your schedule. Different strategies work for different families, but here are some ideas to try:


Apps stirring up trouble in schools

Ask any middle or high school teacher what their biggest classroom challenge is, and it's pretty much guaranteed they'll say "cellphones." Makes sense. Today, 95 percent of teens have access to a cellphone, and nearly half say they're on them "constantly." Putting aside for a moment the need to find solutions to this problem, inquiring minds want to know: What the heck is on kids' phones that they can't go an entire class without them?

Watch CHP helicopter pluck stranded hiker from cliff at Ragged Point

A CHP helicopter rescued a stranded hiker from the side of a cliff near the Ragged Point Inn on Monday, August 20, 2018, after the man wandered off the trail from the beach.