Q: Ive been on several interviews in which the managers asked these questions: How much do you need to run your household? and What is the minimum youre willing to accept?
Im quite frustrated, because these managers are taking advantage of high unemployment rates. I'm quite sure theyve discussed each candidate, reviewed the length of time each candidate has been unemployed and considered levels of experience. What is your opinion on this "new" question of the unemployment craze? Frustrated
A: Dear Frustrated, My opinion? Mixed reviews. An employer is justified in asking how little youd accept, a question for good and bad economies. Know your bottom line.
An employer isnt justified in asking about your household budget. Change the focus. Say, Compensation is about paying what the job is worth. Follow that with the amount of compensation in that position in that company or elsewhere in your market. This last point is relevant for any job search any time. Its part of the research you need to do to be informed. Give as many specifics as possible, including company names. Let them know you know your stuff. That will put you one step above the competition. mlc
Q: I simply dont know what to do. I think Ive been labeled a job hopper or flight risk. I graduated 11 years ago and entered broadcast journalism. When I wasnt successful, I moved on, transferring my skills and interests. Not many jobs lasted more than two years, even though Im hard-working and creative, thriving in environments that allow for expression. I feel as if Im just floating and Im almost in a state of panic.
Im recently married and I want to start a family, but not without some type of career. I leave interviews having impressed employers, but I need direction and career-shaping.
While I love media and public relations, being a private person might be half of my problem. I know Im better than this and dont know why I cant find or simply be given the opportunity to prove myself. Wanderer
A: Dear Wanderer, Forget being given an opportunity. You have to grab one. Begin by anchoring your career:
Write down 10 work activities you enjoy doing most.
Select one you could do in your sleep.
Write down five activities related to that one.
Thats your long-term job description. Hunt for a job pointing in that direction. mlc
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