OAKDALE The Cunha family thought they'd be spending Thanksgiving and Christmas in the hospital with their daughter.
Instead, 11-year-old Hailee came home Wednesday night, three weeks after suffering a severe brain injury while practicing gymnastics.
About 6 p.m. Nov. 4, Hailee was practicing a giant a move in which the gymnast swings completely around a bar at Elite Gymnastics in Modesto when she lost her grip and launched herself through the air.
"Her coach actually got to her before she landed and caught her lower body," said Hailee's father, Mark Cunha. "He probably saved her life."
Still, Hailee landed on her head. Although she was alert and talking, her coach called for an ambulance.
"We got the call about 6:15," Mark Cunha said. "He wanted to get her to the hospital, just to make sure everything was OK."
The Cunhas headed to Modesto to meet the ambulance at Doctors Medical Center. But as they drove along Briggsmore Avenue, they got another call. The ambulance crew was diverting to the closer Memorial Medical Center, where a helicopter would take Hailee to the University of California at Davis Medical Center in Sacramento.
Even at that point, the Cunhas didn't panic. Both Mark and his wife, Jimmie, had been emergency medical technicians and knew that medics often act with an abundance of caution.
That changed when Mark Cunha saw his daughter. "She was all blown up, especially the right side of her face," he said. "I took her hand and said, 'Daddy's here. You have a bad owie.' I don't know how much she understood, but a tear fell down the side of her face."
Hailee's brain was bleeding; she needed immediate surgery. She came out early the next morning, only to be wheeled back into the operating room when the bleeding didn't stop.
Several days of uncertainty followed as the family settled into a new routine. Jimmie stayed with her daughter during the day; Mark took the night shifts. He returned during the day to Oakdale. The couple's 13-year-old son, Chase, stayed at their house with relatives.
Progress was slow
Mark Cunha described the time as "four to five days of nothing." Hailee remained unresponsive, and doctors would not give the Cunhas a prognosis.
"With head injuries, usually the progress is slow," Jimmie Cunha said. "They weren't going to try to give us false hope."
One night, Mark Cunha was holding his daughter's hand when her fingers started moving. And he remembered a game they used to play.
"I tried to get her to thumb-wrestle me, but I couldn't remember the start (one, two, three, four, I declare a thumb war)," he said.
Hailee seemingly tried to help, holding out one, two and three fingers. "I went running to the nurses and said, 'You're going to think I'm crazy, but I need the thumb war song.' "
Then he remembered another tradition when the Cunhas are out walking, father and daughter link pinky fingers.
"I said, 'Let's do the pinky shake,' " he said. "And she did it. That's when I knew she was in there."
Remarkable recovery
Hailee's progression from that point has been remarkable, her parents said. She opened her eyes and slowly started talking, responding to questions. After 11 days in the intensive care unit, she was transferred to the pediatrics ward.
"The first day she walked, she was really unsteady," Mark Cunha said. "Three days later, I was after her to slow her down."
It wasn't immediately clear how much damage the injury caused Hailee's brain, if she could read or do simple math.